Self-Improvement Tips : How to Small Talk

February 5th, 2010 | by admin |

To increase small talk skills, avoid politics and religion, and focus on asking the other person questions. Learn to create small talk with tips from professional psychologist in this free video about self-improvement tips.

Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn
Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com
Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has a Ph.D and did graduate work in behavior psychology. Vehorn wrote “Dynamic Dating” and “Boomer Girls, a Woman’s Guide to Men & Dating.”
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz

Duration : 0:1:21


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  1. 25 Responses to “Self-Improvement Tips : How to Small Talk”

  2. By duba3988 on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    yeah man I …
    yeah man I hate that shit

  3. By x2malandy on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    Whats a extrovert? …
    Whats a extrovert? (just making small talk)

  4. By cwa1984 on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    I’m sorry but small …
    I’m sorry but small talk is bullshit. Small talk is for small minded people. Anyone who talks about meaningless over and over again is annoying. Afterall 99% of the time I know what there going to say before they say it and have to watch them stand there and go on and on because they can’t figure out for themselves. It’s seriously sad that extroverts rule the world and force retarded like this on us introverts constantly.

  5. By segano1 on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    Yes but It may just …
    Yes but It may just be that you are bigger than them and they are intimidated.

  6. By poogaia on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    change your hair …
    change your hair and what you wear =]
    jk

  7. By segano1 on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    what if you are a …
    what if you are a really good person but people frown at you because they find you intimidating because of the way you look,like your bigger than them and dressed mainly all in black with longish dark hair etc?

  8. By x2malandy on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    part 2,this guy is …
    part 2,this guy is cool. listen more than talking is a good bet that you may may have a good time. do not try to impress people with the me, me, me monster. enjoy life. and try to keep from when meeting new people.

  9. By x2malandy on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    part 1, are you …
    part 1, are you saying that i am a small person? you may understand what you think i said but im not sure that you realize that what you read is not what i meant. how about a dic, to bring up a subject, like pink roses, knives, poop, its endless. 1 of my fav ,snake. i used 2 have a inf complex until i knew i was superior. i feel so bad right now, am i a small person. no pol or rel . if the person has a harley starts talking about it, i would rather split my head with a 38 than listen to him.

  10. By Prisoner7777 on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    I have a massive …
    I have a massive problem: I’m psychic so know what the other person will say next. People bore me.

  11. By breastinspector2 on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    obvious to some, …
    obvious to some, hard to find for the socailly awkward… who would be among those watching his video(s)

  12. By ya13er on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    lol
    lol

  13. By BethanyAwSomeness on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    What do u do if u …
    What do u do if u don’t know what to talk about..? and u think to much ABOUT what to talk about?

  14. By ooohpie on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    what ever hes say …
    what ever hes say there just point crappy obvious things

  15. By blackfootnavajo on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    dont think about …
    dont think about what you should talk about so much :D easy to say i know!

  16. By awesomeseminars on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    looks like he is …
    looks like he is falling a sleep

  17. By osirusosirus36 on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    your 2 full of …
    your 2 full of yourself 4 a start. people who love/talk about themselves too much are boring and come across as arrogant, hence people dont want 2 talk 2 u. arrogant people are the worst type of people to be stuck in a conversation with (that is if u are 2 full of yourself, im just going off what you’ve written)

  18. By CireRice on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    its not them its …
    its not them its you … you bug them …. you try too hard.. its not your fault. you cant help yourself

  19. By stretchmillz101 on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    because small talk …
    because small talk gets boring

  20. By lizourazou on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    your clearly too …
    your clearly too full of yourself. u must talk too much about yourself (use what u just said as an example, noones perfect). just trying to help, no offence

  21. By matvfreelife on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    There has to be …
    There has to be something that you’re curious about the other person….you’re just think about it inside your head…say, ask, and do what is in your mind….

  22. By oboma8 on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    I am good at small …
    I am good at small talk at social gatherings and talk to people easily but I seldom get to a higher level. I am smart and have an attractive smile. I maintain good eye contact and do just about everything right. The problem is people seem to always want to excuse themselves to go to the bathroom, etc. Their loss I guess.

  23. By eliados2020 on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    What should I do …
    What should I do when I don’t have any idea what to ask about?

  24. By avidutubewatcher on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    good vid .. thanks
    good vid .. thanks

  25. By renewd on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    I totally agree …
    I totally agree that small talk is the gateway to every relationship that you might experience in life.

  26. By internetsgoldenegg on Feb 5, 2010 | Reply

    Hey I really …
    Hey I really enjoyed your video. I just posted a new one you might like. I look forward to your next one

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